As a pastor, I have had the privilege of supporting families who are facing one of life’s most difficult challenges – caring for a loved one who is nearing the end of their life. While this is never an easy experience, it can be an incredibly meaningful and transformative time […]
Read MoreThe Neurodivergent Pastor
As a neurodivergent pastor, I have always felt a deep sense of call to serve God and to care for those around me. However, my journey as a minister has not been without its challenges, particularly as I navigate the complexities of living with OCD and PTSD. On the one […]
Read MoreRaging Fire: A spoken word about society
Anger boils inside me like a raging fire As I look around at a society that is so divisive and unfair How can we claim to be free when discrimination is still rampant? Racism, sexism, homophobia – it’s all still here, lurking beneath the surface It’s like a sickness that […]
Read More“Star” Words vs. New Year’s Resolutions
As the new year began, many of us made resolutions in an attempt to improve ourselves and our lives. However, statistics show that only a small percentage of people actually follow through with their resolutions. If you’re tired of setting unrealistic goals and feeling disappointed when you don’t achieve them, […]
Read More“Chosen” Families and the importance of having one!
Chosen families are a type of non-biological family unit where individuals come together to form a close bond based on shared values, experiences, and love. These families are often formed outside of traditional family structures and can consist of friends, romantic partners, and other loved ones who provide emotional, practical, […]
Read MoreNapping: A Necessity for Sunday Afternoons!
As individuals engage in religious practices, they often find themselves in a state of heightened mental and emotional activity, which may lead to feelings of fatigue and exhaustion. Sunday, being a day of rest, is an opportune time for individuals to engage in restorative activities, such as napping, to alleviate […]
Read MoreHow to deal with gaslighting from a Christian perspective
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where an individual manipulates another person to doubt their own perception of reality. It is a common tactic used by abusers, narcissists, and manipulators to control and undermine their victims. The term “gaslighting” comes from the 1944 film Gaslight, in which a husband […]
Read MoreHolding On: A Man’s Struggle with Antiphospholipid Syndrome and the Desire to Give Up
Introduction Living with Antiphospholipid Syndrome (APS) is a relentless battle, particularly for men who may face unique challenges and societal expectations in their journey. APS, an autoimmune disorder that causes the body to produce antibodies against phospholipids, increases the risk of blood clotting and can lead to complications such as […]
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