The personal journey each of us undertakes is a tapestry woven with threads of challenges, triumphs, mentors, and moments of grace. My tapestry, in particular, is vivid with colors of struggle and redemption, and at its center is the emblem of the United Church of Christ (UCC).

Growing up within the confines of a conservative denomination and later immersing myself in the Catholic Faith, I grappled with a weighty secret: my closeted LGBTQIA+ identity. This, coupled with untreated anxiety, depression, OCD, and PTSD, led me down paths that caused unintentional rifts, especially with my immediate family.

Yet, like a ship lost at sea that eventually finds its lighthouse, I was steered towards the UCC. This turn in direction wasn’t a mere coincidence. Rev. Lori Schafer, Rev. Kim Magwire, Rev. Tom Ressler, and Lorin Cope—key figures in my life—facilitated it.

The Lighthouses in My Storm

Rev. Lori Schafer was the first beacon. She introduced me to the United Church of Christ’s principles of inclusivity and justice. With her guidance, I realized that there existed a community where I didn’t have to hide or suppress any part of my identity.

Rev. Kim Magwire and Rev. Tom Ressler played instrumental roles in my spiritual and personal transformation. Their mentorship, teachings, and unwavering support instilled in me the belief that I had a purpose, a calling, and that my past struggles were stepping stones, not stumbling blocks. Through their eyes, I saw a version of myself I hadn’t seen before—one that was worthy, strong, and destined for greatness in service.

Lastly, Lorin Cope was not just a mentor but a compass, guiding me through the stormiest parts of my mental health journey. With Lorin’s encouragement, I began addressing my mental health challenges, sought treatment, and embarked on a therapeutic journey. Medication and therapy weren’t signs of weakness; they became tools of empowerment.

From Seeker to Servant

With these guiding lights by my side, I not only found stability but was also propelled towards my vocation. Today, I stand proud not just as a member of the UCC, but as an ordained minister in this denomination that I hold close to my heart.

For those who might feel the UCC’s stance is too progressive, I firmly believe that their radical welcome is reflective of Jesus’ own actions. Jesus, the compassionate savior who consistently reached out to the marginalized, is the same Jesus I’ve come to know through the UCC.

To New Beginnings and Eternal Gratitude

My journey is a testament to the transformative power of mentorship, faith, and resilience. To Rev. Lori Schafer, Rev. Kim Magwire, Rev. Tom Ressler, and Lorin Cope: Your influence has been profound. You’ve been the pillars I leaned on as I transitioned from the shadows to the pulpit.

For anyone reading this, know that no matter the detours, dead-ends, or storms you face, there’s a lighthouse waiting for you. And sometimes, that lighthouse isn’t just a place; it’s people who see the best in you, even when you can’t.

With the UCC and my guiding mentors, I’ve found my spiritual home and purpose. If you’re searching, I hope and pray that you find yours too.