When I reflect upon my faith and my life’s journey – growing up in a middle-class, white, conservative family, transitioning from a life of middle-class comfort to economic struggles, grappling with my LGBTQIA identity, and navigating the harsh realities of incarceration – I often wonder about the roots of my […]
A Tapestry of Grace: Finding My True Self Through The United Church of Christ
Life is a journey with many unexpected twists and turns. Several years ago, I found myself at a challenging juncture, incarcerated, disconnected, and at an all-time low. Amidst these bleak surroundings, however, a light emerged — I was found by the United Church of Christ (UCC). This spiritual encounter would […]
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Unveiling Anger: A Pastor’s Journey to Authenticity and Acceptance
Introduction As a Christian pastor, the call to love and guide others is a profound journey, one that can become especially complex when intersecting with identities as a neurodivergent, LGBTQIA individual, and former convict. The path to living authentically, while guided by faith, can be fraught with judgment and misunderstanding, […]
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Church Folks vs. God’s Folks: The True Nature of Being the Church
In our faith journeys, we often hear references to “church folks” and “God’s folks.” These labels might appear synonymous at first glance, yet they reflect different approaches to spirituality, service, and community. Understanding the distinction is essential in our path towards spiritual growth and embodying the very essence of what […]
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Building a Stronger Church Community: Avoiding Hurtful Actions Towards Your Pastor
Introduction: The church community is meant to be a place of love, support, and understanding. Within this sacred space, the pastor plays a pivotal role in guiding and nurturing the congregation. However, despite their devotion and dedication, pastors are not immune to emotional pain caused by thoughtless actions. In this […]
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Unveiling the Hidden Gems: 5 Experiences for First-Time Visitors at a Small Church
Introduction: When it comes to attending church, small congregations offer an intimate and welcoming environment that can be a refreshing change of pace for first-time visitors. These small churches may not boast grandeur or vast numbers, but they have their own unique charm and authenticity. In this blog post, we […]
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The Power of Positivity: How Great Churches Emphasize What They Are For, Not Against!
Introduction: In today’s world, it’s not uncommon to hear about churches or religious organizations that are known for what they are against. However, truly great churches understand the power of emphasizing what they are for, rather than focusing on what they are against. By shifting the narrative and embracing positivity, […]
