In the heart of every Christian congregation lies the call to embrace all, to love unconditionally, and to create spaces where every individual feels welcomed and valued. Yet, the reality often falls short of this noble aspiration. In many churches, certain groups find themselves marginalized, overlooked, or even ostracized. From […]
Read MoreFrom the 52 year old me to my younger self,
Dear Little One, Today, as I ink down these words, marks the fifty-second year of my life—a tapestry woven with joy, struggle, resilience, and love. I’m taking a moment to whisper through the corridors of time to reach out to you, my younger self. There’s much to share, dear heart. […]
Read MoreThe Heart of the Storm
In the heart of the storm where judgments roar, As a pastor, a shepherd of God’s own core, A beacon of faith, yet so much more, Queer, neurodivergent, once a convict’s score. Emotions rise, like waves upon a shore, Anger surfaces, a lion’s mighty roar, Not the primal beast, but […]
Read MoreUnveiling Anger: A Pastor’s Journey to Authenticity and Acceptance
Introduction As a Christian pastor, the call to love and guide others is a profound journey, one that can become especially complex when intersecting with identities as a neurodivergent, LGBTQIA individual, and former convict. The path to living authentically, while guided by faith, can be fraught with judgment and misunderstanding, […]
Read MoreEmbracing Neurofabulous: Celebrating Neurodiversity with a Fresh Perspective
Introduction In recent years, there has been a growing movement towards embracing neurodiversity and acknowledging the unique strengths and perspectives of individuals who deviate from the so-called “neurotypical” norm. As part of this movement, the term “neurodivergent” has gained traction, referring to those with neurological differences such as autism, ADHD, […]
Read MoreThe Neurodivergent Pastor
As a neurodivergent pastor, I have always felt a deep sense of call to serve God and to care for those around me. However, my journey as a minister has not been without its challenges, particularly as I navigate the complexities of living with OCD and PTSD. On the one […]
Read MoreOCD, Grace and Me.
OCD, the thief of peace, the shadow of doubt It’s a war in my mind, an endless bout But there’s a grace from God that shines bright It’s the strength that carries me through the night OCD, it’s a weight that’s hard to bear It’s a constant battle, a cross […]
Read MoreI am not broken!
I am not broken, though my brain may work differently, I am not damaged, though my wiring may seem strange, I am neurodivergent, and I have a unique perspective, I have a way of thinking that sets me apart, and that’s okay. Growing up, I struggled to fit in, to […]
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