“Star” Words vs. New Year’s Resolutions

As the new year began, many of us made resolutions in an attempt to improve ourselves and our lives. However, statistics show that only a small percentage of people actually follow through with their resolutions. If you’re tired of setting unrealistic goals and feeling disappointed when you don’t achieve them, […]

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The Need for Congregational Care in the Church

Congregational care is a critical part of pastoral ministry. As pastors, we are called to care for the members of our congregations, and this includes visiting the elderly. In a progressive church, where social justice and inclusivity are key values, it is especially important to ensure that all members of […]

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“Chosen” Families and the importance of having one!

Chosen families are a type of non-biological family unit where individuals come together to form a close bond based on shared values, experiences, and love. These families are often formed outside of traditional family structures and can consist of friends, romantic partners, and other loved ones who provide emotional, practical, […]

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A letter to my husband during Pastor’s Spouse Appreciation Month

As we celebrate Pastor’s Spouse Appreciation Month, I want to take a moment to express my gratitude for my husband. While I may be the one who stands in the pulpit every week, I could not do what I do without his love, support, and partnership. Being a pastor’s husband […]

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Napping: A Necessity for Sunday Afternoons!

As individuals engage in religious practices, they often find themselves in a state of heightened mental and emotional activity, which may lead to feelings of fatigue and exhaustion. Sunday, being a day of rest, is an opportune time for individuals to engage in restorative activities, such as napping, to alleviate […]

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How to Handle Conflict in a Marriage?

The ability to resolve differences peacefully is one of the most important components in a happy and successful marriage. The increasing complexity of modern relationships has led to an increase in the frequency of marital conflict. As a result, it is vital to create efficient tactics for managing marital conflict […]

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How to deal with gaslighting from a Christian perspective

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where an individual manipulates another person to doubt their own perception of reality. It is a common tactic used by abusers, narcissists, and manipulators to control and undermine their victims. The term “gaslighting” comes from the 1944 film Gaslight, in which a husband […]

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Why Hagar is a role-model for the previously incarcerated!

The story of Hagar in the Bible is a powerful story of a woman who was enslaved, mistreated, and oppressed, but who ultimately found freedom and hope through her faith. This story resonates with many individuals who have experienced incarceration, as they too have experienced oppression, mistreatment, and confinement. Hagar’s […]

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